This week we celebrate two important feasts: All Saints - November 1st and All Souls - November 2nd. These feasts celebrate our Christian belief in life after death. A tradition in many cultures is the home altar. The altar is usually a small table placed in the family room on which is placed a statue or picture of Jesus, Mary or other favorite saints. A candle can be lit to signify presence and prayer. Pictures of deceased family members can also be placed on the altar with memories shared about them with the children. Another tradition during this month of November is to visit the graves of loved ones, perhaps cleaning the markers and leaving behind some flowers. Children should see that cemeteries and graves are cared for as a sign of respect not only for the deceased, but also to the bereaved and the descendants who visit.
A Prayer at the Graveside
Lord Jesus Christ, by your own three days in the tomb, you hallowed the graves of all who believe in you and so made the grave a sign of hope that promises resurrection even as it claims our mortal bodies. Grant that our brother/sister, N. may sleep here in peace until you awaken him/her to glory, for you are the resurrection and the life. Then he/she will see you face to face and in your light will see and know the splendor of God, for you live and reign forever and ever. Amen.
Eternal rest grant unto them, O Lord, and let the perpetual light shine upon them.
May they rest in peace. Amen.
May their souls and the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Amen.
